You’ve seen it over and over: the not-so-good-looking guy that’s got a hot girlfriend. You see these guys that, let’s face it, look like total losers, yet somehow manage to end up with beautiful women and you wonder how they managed to do it. They must be rich, right? While that is definitely the case once in a while, there are regular guys out there who always manage to attract the attention of beautiful women. What’s their secret? We’ll tell you 5 secrets that will help you get the women you want.
#1:
Be Confident or At Least Pretend to Be
Women love confident guys and a little
confidence can go a long way in making a seemingly average guy far more
attractive to a woman. If you want a woman to think you’re worth her time, then
you need to act like you’re worth it. If you don’t consider yourself worthy,
you can bet that she’ll see it in the way you carry yourself. The great thing
about confidence is that you can do a pretty good job of faking it if you set
your mind to it. Stand up straight, don’t stammer when you speak, and most
importantly be sure to make and maintain eye contact when you’re trying to get
her attention and when you speak to her. Practice being confident on every
person you speak to and eventually it will come naturally. Don’t assume a woman
is out of your league and instead remember that we’re all human and every woman
is fair fame—even the gorgeous ones. You can do it!
#2:
Have a Sense of Humor
Every woman will tell you that she wants a
man who can make her laugh. This also explains why so many seemingly average or
even ugly comedians get hot girlfriends. Um, hellooo David Spade and Naya Rivera! This doesn’t mean you need to
rush out and learn a bunch of knock-knock jokes, but do stop taking yourself
too seriously and be up for a good laugh. Learn to find the humor in everyday
situations and don’t be afraid to share them with a pretty woman. There’s not a
gut or uni-brow that can’t be overlooked if you know how to make her laugh!
#3:
Man-Up
Telling someone to “man-up” may be
considered politically incorrect these days, but it’s still good advice when
you’re trying to win a woman’s attention. Even the strongest and most
independent woman is attracted to the idea of a man who gets sh*t done and is
responsible. It’s human nature for a woman to want a man who is capable of
stepping up and looking after her. Show that you’re competent and responsible
and she’ll take notice. This isn’t about an important job and lots of money,
it’s about taking care of yourself and not living like an aimless sloth.
#4:
Put Some Effort into Your Appearance
We’re not talking plastic surgery and
trying to look like George Clooney here, but put some effort into your
appearance. It doesn’t need to cost a lot of money to look good either; proper
hygiene, smelling good, and wearing clothes that are clean, wrinkle-free, and
fit well will go a long way in making you stand out over a lot of other
guys—especially in this day and age of ripped jeans and pants that hang below
the crack line.
#5:
Have a Life
Do things and experience life. Don’t make
it all about meeting women because you need more than that going on in your
life to appeal to anyone including yourself. Join a weekend sports team or
club, travel, read books, stay on top of current affairs, and just get out
there and enjoy doing things. This doesn’t just give you more to talk about
when you do meet new women, but having a fulfilling life makes you happier and
more confident so that you don’t ever come off as desperate or needy.
These ugly guys who get hot women do all of
these things, which all together, make them stand out over the competition.
These things will help you get and keep the attention of the women you want.
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