Whether it’s old-school dating sites or
trendy new dating apps; you want to get the most out of your online dating
experience, right? Getting the most out of it means meeting the kind of women
you want without wasting too much time on those that aren’t a good fit or
aren’t looking for the same thing that you are, no matter what that may be.
Here are 10 quick and easy tips that will help you do that and more so that you
can enjoy the best that online dating’s got to offer.
1.
Know what you want. If you have a clear idea of
what you want it will make it easier to navigate the sea of endless choices
that you find on Tinder and other dating apps and sites. Don’t be too rigid,
but have ageneral idea of the type of relationship you want, age group, etc.
2.
Choose the best site for you. While most sites
offer the chance to narrow your criteria, there are sites that cater to
specifics, like faith, sex or long-term relationships, sexual orientation, etc.
Do your homework to pick the best one for you.
3.
Choose the right categories. You can help narrow
your options to get closer to what you want by choosing the appropriate
categories for relationship types, age, race/ethnicity, etc.
4.
Get a good profile picture. It should be current
and reflect what you look like now—not 10 years ago when you were in your high
school glory days. Take a bunch of selfies or get a friend to take some pics
and choose one that you’re happy with. Profiles with pics really do get a lot
more action.
5.
Write a killer profile. Be funny, honest, and
to-the-point. Keep it short, but impactful and representative of who you really
are and what you’re looking for.
6.
Keep an open mind. Yes, you like what you like and
don’t want to waste time on women of no interest, but you also don’t want to
limit yourself to the point of missing out on someone amazing. Don’t get too
hung up on a specific type because just being a certain height with this hair
and eye color doesn’t guarantee a good fit. Know your deal breakers, but stay
open to new people and experiences.
7.
Be honest. Lying about how you look, what you do or
what you’re into jus to try to impress women will only backfire. It’s a
complete waste of your time and hers, not to mention that you risk some major drama
and embarrassment down the road. Seriously, don’t bother.
8.
Have fun. Even if you’re looking for a serious
relationship, the entire experience of dating should be fun. Let loose and
enjoy the experience because at least that way, even if a date isn’t Mrs.
Right, you’ve at the very least managed to enjoy yourself.
9.
Be safe. Don’t go getting all macho and assuming
that safety isn’t an issue just because you’re a guy. Women can be crazy!
Besides, who’s to say that the hot “girl” you’ve been texting with is even a
girl at all? Better safe than sorry, always, so don’t give out your home or
work address or phone number and always have your initial meeting in a public
place.
10. Meet
in person ASAP. Don’t drag on the texting/messaging
phase and make plans to meet women that seem promising right away. You don’t
want to waste a bunch of time building someone up in your head because you’ll
risk unrealistic expectations and inevitable disappointment if she doesn’t live
up to what you made her up to be. If she seems interesting, then arrange to
meet for coffee soon.
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