Worried that your girlfriend is cheating?
Before you go off on her with an accusation, it’s important to determine
whether or not your intuition is right or if insecurity or other issues are
making your mind play tricks on you. How? Well, by paying close attention for
starters. These 10 signs she’s cheating can help you know what to look for
before you confront her with your suspicions.
1.
She keeps mentioning another guy. If you hear
another guy’s name being slipped into your conversations, even if he’s“just a
colleague”, then she may be cheating even if just emotionally. When you’re
attracted to someone, you can’t help but want to talk about them. This doesn’t
mean she’s physically cheated yet, but it’s a sign that she is thinking a lot
about someone else.
2.
She’s keeping busier than usual. If all of a sudden
she is busier than usual with work, hobbies, friends, and other things that
keep her away from you, this could be her way of pulling away and creating distance
between the two of you.
3.
She’s putting more effort into her looks. Some
women always like to look nice, but if she’s suddenly buying more new clothes
and putting more effort into her hair and makeup when she’s going to work or to
the gym, then she’s likely trying to impress another guy. This is also a sign
of increased confidence that’s often fueled by interest from someone new.
4. She’s
talking less. If she used to tell you every last
detail of her day and talk to you about the things going on in her life and is
no longer doing that, then she’s likely got something to hide. The less details
the better when you want to avoid slipping up and getting caught in a lie.
5.
Your sex life has changed. Any drastic change in
your sex life can be a sign that she’s cheating. Some women may want less sex
because they’ve lost interest in you and are having their needs met elsewhere,
while others may want more sex than ever or start trying new things in bed
because they’re excited by the new sex they’re getting from someone else.
6.
She’s nagging you more. If you’ve noticed an
increase in her nagging or that she’s all of a sudden criticizing ever y last
thing you do, then she may subconsciously be trying to distance herself from
you and justify her behaviour by making you look like the bad guy.
7.
She’s accusing you of cheating. If you haven’t
given her any reason to be suspicious yet she suddenly accuses you of cheating,
then she’s likely trying to turn the tables to keep the attention off herself.
8.
She buys new lingerie. A sudden desire to have new
lingerie is a red flag that she’s got someone she’s looking to be sexy for.
This doesn’t mean that anytime a woman treats herself to a new pair of panties
it’s because she’s getting some on the side, but a sudden need to buy a bunch of
sexy lingerie that she isn’t parading around in for you is NOT good.
9.
She’s become protective of her phone. Guarding her
phone or laptop and leaving the room when she gets a call or text is a sign
that she’s got something to hide. Same goes for suddenly making her phone and
other devices password protected out of the blue.
10.
She deletes her search history. Deleting your
browser history and phone logs are a HUGE red flag that she’s hiding
something. Take a peek at her browser
history the next time you’re on her laptop, tablet or phone. If she’s clearing
it after every use, then she may be cheating or getting ready to.
Any drastic change in her behaviour that
isn’t connected to an illness or other logical explanation means that it may be
time to have a talk. Don’t ignore the signs.
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